He says I am unromantic

    Please help me. My husband keeps describing me as being very unromantic. I have done my best but he keeps complaining. I don’t know what else to do because he is the first man in my life.

I don’t have any friend to turn to.

This isn’t something I can discuss with my mother, and since I don’t have an elder sister, only an elder brother whose wife isn’t very friendly, I want you to help me.

How can I become the kind of woman he wants?

He is the kind of man I also cannot talk to. He is very distant from me and any attempt to ask him what it is I am doing wrong could turn into a misunderstanding.

Although I am shy asking this question; is it true that when a woman puts to bed, her person expands? After the birth of our set of twins, my husband said I have expanded to the extent he doesn’t get any satisfaction from me anymore.

I am pregnant again and so afraid if this birth will further deteriorate my person. I so much want my husband to be happy but the more I try the more problems I rake up. Agatha, I am very unhappy. At 30, I am beginning to grey.

In our four years of marriage he has never complimented me on anything. I am beginning to suspect he doesn’t love, just married me when he found out I was a virgin and naïve. He is 12 years older than I am and at the time we met, he was dating this woman he told me was his age mate and very worldly.

Although I don’t have any evidence, but I think they are back together because of the kind of perfume he comes home bathed with and the kind of cars he brings home. Whenever I ask where he gets the cars from, he barks at me.

My parents will never take me back hence my decision to stay in this marriage and find ways of making him happy.

Do whatever you can for me; I beg you in the name of God.

Ronny.