Have you ever wondered why some men are not eager to get married? Have
you ever come across someone who has all what it takes, but not willing
to settle down with a partner? Have you ever wondered why some men
decide to be running after many girls at once?
Whenever you come
across someone with any of this kind of trait, know that they’re many
things that influence that behavior which am going to explain in this
article.
For example, if you’re with someone whom you believe is
resourceful and able to take care of a family but at the same time does
not want to, then you have to know that either they have a reason for
escaping away from it or something is hindering them.
8 reasons why men are not eager to get married
Before
I give you some of the major reasons behind men’s actions towards
married, I also want you know that these reasons apply to majority of
men but not all because some men naturally don’t abide to the idea of
marriage especially settling down at an early age.
1. They can get sex without marriage:
One major point, which hinders some men, is the ability to know that
they can made love without marriage. This concept often makes them think
less of marriage. When it comes to this point, you will realized that
women will be the one eager to get married before sex while if the man
needs sex, he just get another girl, done and dupe her just like that
and this makes them think less of marriage.
2. The benefits of having a wife by cohabiting rather than marrying: A man may be
reluctant
to think of marriage when he thinks he can ask for a female friend to
come live with him. In most cases the girl just accepts believing that
it’s a way to express her love to the guy. Nothing is wrong with that
but the problem now is that, the guy gets all the benefit of marriage
while unmarried. You will even see that in some instances, they have a
child without legally married. It’s true, it happens all the time.
3. They want to avoid divorce and financial risk:
Some men are afraid of the ideal of getting married due to the
obstacles that come later in it, probably because they saw an example
from their parents or others and not want to fall another victim in this
regard. Also the inability to get a stable source of income makes
others to think less of marriage.
4. They expect to get older before having children:
This has to do mostly with young men. They expect to enjoy the benefit
of youth and the good things that life offers after graduation before
settling down for marriage. That is why if you decide to do a little
research on this point, you will discover that the majority of young men
are not eager to bear children. They believe there is no rush in it in
the sense that they can still settle and get children at old age.
5. They fear of changes and compromise:
Most of the time you will realize that a man just wants a wife probably
to look good, provide great sex, join in his day-to-day recreational
activities and tell him he is wonderful. On the other hand women’s
requirements are not very like that. They need to feel loved. They want a
great conversationalist, a man who is funny, a good father for their
children, someone who is attractive, a good sexual partner, a man who is
ambitiously successful and God fearing. In reality, most men are simply
not that. For the majority of them to do this, a lot of changes will be
required which some men are not willing to.
6. Waiting for a perfect match:
This is another reason why you may see someone with all what it takes
to get married but on the other hand he is not willing to. This point
makes sense to me to a certain extend. For example, a man can expect to
find a soul mate before he can get married. During this process, no
woman other than his criteria match will make him married until he sees
one. In my book How to make someone fall in love with you, I explained
how the falling in love process takes place in the subconscious mind and
how a person can program someone’s mind to appear as a rightful match
for him.
7. Further education: The ability to acquire
further knowledge hinders some men as well as women. They believed that
in order for them to concentrate with studies, they don’t want to be
disturb by family affairs or bearing the responsibility of children
while in school.
8. They faced few social pressures to marry:
Concerning the issue of getting married, women are more eager than men
probably because they’re faced with much pressure from parents, family
members, friends etc. than men. If a girl’s friend gets married, she
automatically wants to get married as well. I don’t know why, maybe it
has to do with eternal pressures or comparison. But with the case of
men, they take it in a gradual process taking their time.
As you
can see from the reasons above, a man may decide to seek more time
before thinking of married due to many good and bad things happening
within and around him, right? Prior to the 8 reasons why men are not
eager to get married mentioned above, they are other minor factors which
still hinder some men like the inability to finance a legitimate
marriage, the hope to first have a self-apartment , wanting to build a
house, not willing to marry a woman who already has a child etc.
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