My boyfriend says he loves me but the next minute he says I’m an embarrassment.
I’m
16, he’s 19 and we’ve been together a year. I knew from the start that
he used drugs but I thought he’d stop once he had a good relationship.
How
wrong was that? All he thinks and talks about is drugs, and one minute
he’s saying he wants to be with me forever, that I’m everything he
wants, then the next he’s saying that I’m not the right girl.
He
tells me that I’m too full-on and clingy, but he’s always the one who
gets in touch with me and asks me to go round to his house. He never
comes round to mine.
He
tells me how much he is attracted to me then in the next breath he says
he doesn’t like the way I look and that I’m an embarrassment.
We have split up loads of times and he’s always the one who calls me and wants me back.
He
promised he’d stop taking drugs but he hasn’t. I spend most of my time
upset about this and wishing he’d stop before something bad happens.
I don’t want to lose him as a boyfriend but all this is becoming too much.
Recommendations
Don’t
accept his random insults. It’s only getting you down and letting him
think you’ll carry on taking it. Give it to him straight that you can’t
carry on accepting his erratic behaviour and that he will be history if
he doesn’t get help.
Hopefully, he’ll see sense but don’t let him drag you down with him.
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